港女港男,早死早著!

親愛的 香港女生香港男生

你地千萬唔好以為我想要你地任何人早死早著! 我想早死早著嘅係「港女」「港男」哩兩個文化概念(cultural ideas 或者 memes)!

我相信文字同說話可以有意無意之間帶來傷害。輕則可以傷害到無辜的人,重則可以傷害到親人最愛,男女朋友,丈夫妻子。「港女」同「港男」就係一個例子。一段好好感情可能因為一句 “你都好「港女」啫!” 或者 “你都好「港男」啫!” 然後慢慢開始傷左。何苦呢?值得嗎?

當然,「港女」同「港男」哩兩個文化概念可以從2007年或之前 (Leona, 同 BBC)開始流行到今時今日,一定有些少理由。我想D香港女生同男生多多小小都有D「港女」同「港男」壞習慣吧? 點解D女生同男生唔可一步以一步改一吓哩D壞習慣呢?唔通香港女生同男生都想要學「X社會 以和為貴」打生打死先happy?點解咁傻呢?

講到尾,我呢個加燦都係想快D見到D香港女生同男生早日面對自己的唔同問題。而唔係為D傻傻地嘅 “扣帽子(labeling)” 而對罵餐死! 雖然我有時都好鐘意隔岸觀火,哈哈!

我希望早日見到D香港男男女女會有D有益有建設嘅討論,去改善你地嘅關係,而唔係比人傻傻地咁鎖住響個黑箱,成日來來去去「港女」「港男」咁打生打死。

係時候要走出個黑箱諗諗啦(Thinking outside the box)!

祝願「港女」同「港男」哩兩個文化概念(meme)早日”氣絕”,”呱得”,”早死早著”!

加燦 敬上

後記:呢篇係我 “兩性之戰(港女對港男@星期日檔案)” 篇文章的續集。

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11 Responses to 港女港男,早死早著!

  1. […] am quite proud to have written “港女港男,早死早著!“, which I hope will be an insightful article even I deliberately picked a seemingly insulting […]

  2. exile from hk says:

    你係唔係想我笑死! 好好笑。我也喜歡隔岸觀火!

  3. kempton says:

    多謝多謝,我真係想D讀者諗諗「港女」同「港男」哩兩個文化概念(memes)的糊塗傻事然後笑死。

  4. assenav says:

    呢篇係我 “兩性之戰(港女對港男@星期日檔案)” 篇文章的續習 <<<<<<< 續集??

  5. kempton says:

    assenav,

    Thanks a lot for correcting 我的用錯別字 “續習” to “續集”. Many thanks.

    What do you think about the article itself, like it? Hate it? Interesting or insightful or useless?

  6. assenav says:

    don’t be discouraged, i really have no comment on your article. i think it’s just a phenomenon, not a problem.

    i think everything will get back to equilibrium eventually, just the matter of time.

    and by the way, i don’t feel threatened by northern girls. coz we are not close substitutes. also, kong men are just not my cup of tea. haha…

  7. kempton says:

    assenav,

    I am not discouraged, I am just curious of what you think. Thats all.

    What worries me is this pattern of thinking and attacking each others is so unhealthy. Hope it will end soon and get back to individual and more constructive discussion.

    Of course, there are still 港男@星期日檔案 this Sunday. So I am looking forward to watching that TVB episode. Should be fun.

  8. 揚眉 says:

    你咁宅心仁厚嘅,好有包青天FEEL。

    我覺得呢場戰爭只會愈來愈激烈,好難有死嘅一日。

  9. kempton says:

    揚眉,

    > 你咁宅心仁厚嘅,好有包青天FEEL。
    “宅心仁厚” – 多謝,”包青天” – 我好黑臉咩?

    > 我覺得呢場戰爭只會愈來愈激烈,好難有死嘅一日。
    唉,咁你都一齊打一場,唔怪得”港女港男”,好難”早死早著”啦。

    我繼續隔岸觀火啦。哈哈!

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